He? She? It?
Whether it’s a boy or a girl or a man or a woman or a cat or a dog, we can now just say “they.” As in:
“Whoever is working on the formula, they better not blow up the building.”
It’s perfectly acceptable, as of recent (to say “they,” not to blow up the building).
Don’t you agree it’s always been awkward, when you didn’t know the gender of the person in a sentence, to have to write “he/she” or “he or she”? Frankly, I usually write “it” whether it’s a person, animal or a slice of pizza (which is sometimes a dangerous formula considering one's choice of toppings). So we’d just say “they” which up till now was not proper grammar, especially in professional writing such as a newspaper column.
But now it is. “He/she” can now be properly referred to as a singular “they.”
According to the Washington Post,
“We know about singular they already — we use it everyday without thinking about it, so this is bringing it to the fore in a more conscious way, and also playing into emerging ideas about gender identity,” said linguist Ben Zimmer, language columnist for the Wall Street Journal, who presided over the voting…”
Word of the Year for 2016
The article also announces:
“Singular ‘they,’ the gender-neutral pronoun, has been named the Word of the Year by a crowd of over 200 linguists at the American Dialect Society’s annual meeting in Washington, D.C.…”
I’d never heard of WOTY, but I do of course follow Pantone’s Color of the Year. This year it’s Colors of the Year — yes, plural, as in “they” (or is that singular?). See the 2016 Colors of the Year. I doubt I’ll use them much unless someone is having a baby.